Autism Parents’ Plea: Understand Kids’ Meltdowns
(CNN) — Heather Moores and her 4-year-old son, Julian, sat in a waiting room at a pediatrician’s office.
Julian, who has autism, was goose-stepping and counting every coat hook on the wall aloud. He started roaring like a lion. Moores smiled at her son, then noticed the horrified looks on other people’s faces.
“People do not understand,” she said. “To them, as bizarre as his actions might look, for us, they’re a blessing. For us, it means he’s enjoying himself and happy. No one understands that. They just see an out-of-control child. They don’t understand this is a good day, when there isn’t screams upon screams.”
On the second World Autism Awareness Day, the search for a cure continues, and major court decisions have helped sort out the theories connected to the mysterious developmental disorders. Public knowledge and acceptance of autism and the difficulties the families face may be growing, as some iReporters told CNN.
But that’s little comfort to a parent whose child’s behavior can range from quirky to violent.
Children with autism have unexplainable breakdowns — their outbursts are often loud, aggressive and disturbing. Julian slams himself against the ground or wall while he screams, flailing his limbs. Julian’s younger brother, Marcus, 3, squirms away from his parents and runs into the street to oncoming cars because he is fascinated by them. He also screams with such ferocity that his face turns purple and mucus bubbles from his nostrils. Their youngest brother, Aric, also has autism and just turned 1 year old. 
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Heather Moores remembers that the stares in the waiting room were full of contempt. Onlookers shook their head in disgust and glared, making her feel like the “world’s worst mother.” This happens every time they go out to the doctor’s office, the barber shop or anywhere in public.
“You’ll hear people talking, ‘If it was my kid, he wouldn’t behave like that. These parents don’t know how to discipline their children. Why don’t you shut that kid up?’ said Alexandre Moores, Heather’s husband. “It makes going out unpleasant. I don’t know if you ever get used to it.”
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